Sometimes it may feel like the whole world is against you. You’re not happy, because you don’t earn enough money, because your job sucks, because your relationship sucks, because it sucks to be single for ever, because you’re not happy with yourself, because the one you admire doesn’t even like you, because you didn’t got the promotion... Their could be a tons of reasons to be unhappy about.
Well here is one formula to change your life and to take your back your power.
But you might not going to like this...
Take responsibility for everything in your life!
You see, most people tend to blame others for their misery.
“My boss is such an asshole, I grew up por, the opportunity wasn’t there, I don’t have time, they don’t treat me right.”
People always seem to have an excuse to justify the thought that they are stuck in life and it's not their fault. They want to believe there is nothing they can do about it.
Well... As long as you don’t take responsibility of your life and keep blaming others, you give away the power to control your life.
Do you want to be happy and successful?
Than you got to take the responsibility about your life 100%!
You can not change others, you can not change the environment, but you can change yourself.
Change your mindset, change your habits, change your decisions, change everything about yourself that doesn’t align with the person you want to be.
You’re relationships sucks? Start questioning what YOU can do, to change the relationship. Even when you think it’s your partner that’s making you unhappy, have you ever thought what your contribution might be with how things are going between you two? And if you did everything you could.. You should wonder why you’re staying in a relationship that makes you unhappy.
If you are unhappy about something and you really can’t change anything about it, even if you change yourself.. You should wonder why you allow that person or that situation to make you feel like this. It is still your own choice to stay.
You’re not happy with your income? What have you done to increase it? Are you working on your skills? Are you helping the company to grow? Are you creating opportunities to be more wealthy? Are you thinking of ways to make more money? You can not expect to get rich, without any effort. Or maybe your focus is on the wrong place.
You don't have time to work on your skills, body, wealth or what ever it is you're lacking of? Wake up earlier, schedule your time better, stop waisting time on useless things. It' that simple.
Taking responsibility of your life takes a lot of discipline and self reflection.
It something a lot of people want to avoid. But is is crucial if you want to chose how your future is going to look like.
Want to have your power back?
Change the thing you can control and take responsibility of your life!
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